HAVE YOU EVER BEEN IN LOVE

According to Webster's dictionary love is an intense concern for or passionate attraction to another person.

According to a Kirk Franklin song I heard in my high school days Love they say "is a word that comes and goes though few people really know what it means to reall love somebody."

Love is not easy but when you fall inlove it is the "Bomb!"

When you refer to the Bible in Ist Corinthians 13 it gives you the qualities of love and above all it doesn't tell you that love hurts.

If you read the Bible in every commandment GOD gives HE always says "Above all love your neighbor as you love yourself." You know it is the way you love people that comes back to you. And according to the Bible love is the greatest gift of all.

I have a friend who always says "think about what you say and do and ask yourself will I do this to myself."

There are different kinds of love:

Unconditional love: its like a mother's love for her child. Like GOD's love for us.

But today we're going to talk about the kind between two people. "man and a woman."

I remember the first time I fell inlove it was like butterflies. I felt so good and just forgot all about food. When you are inlove and have someone love you back it seems like you can pretty much go any length for that person.

I think when love hurts is when you have to let that person go...then you feel like you have a big pit in your stomach. It feels like a dark hole and at that time anyone that comes to you and whispers the right words can easy knock you off your feet.

I always say to people, it's best to know who you are and search yourself before someone can love you for you and love you the way you want to be loved. Remember earlier I mentioned that it's the way you love people that comes back to you. But now look at it in another way "it's the way you love and see yourself that makes people see you and how much you are worth."

One thing ladies fail to know is that some men (as much as I would love not to say this) are really smart. A smart man can see through a woman and if he wants to get you he knows how and when. One thing about some men though is that they give respect to certain kinds of women.(The women that give respect to themselves).

Now I have seen there's a difference between women playing hard to get and being actually respectful to theirselves.

When a woman respects herself nothing phases her. Not the riches, the body, the height, etc.

But when that woman finds true love watch and see how silly she gets.

When love gets a hold of you it renders you silly, I mean people begin to think wow she/he is so stupid. Well personaly I dont think love is stupid or blind..I just feel like the Bible says love sees and knows no faults.

It is quite hard to find that love..the one that makes the butterflies in your stomach come alive. But when you find it and find it for real..it is ahmazing!

Though love is great, it need to be watered just like a plant. Love needs to be fed daily. You can't just say oh am inlove and you sit and day dream all day..well while you day dream your love will find another flower bed where it can be fed with fresh water and fertilizers.

Sometimes when you look at certain couples, they are so  inlove that they begin to look alike.

I notice something in some men though. When they are inlove they try so hard to play the hard guy, the tough macho man and don't want people to think they are weaklings. Personaly Ithink it is actually sexy for a man to run after his woman and just let people see how far he can can go for his love.

Have you ever been inlove..makes you feel like you are floating in the air..nothing the person says is bad..seems like you just want to make the person happy..you just want to do everything to please that person you love..but most of all before you claim you are inlove..start by loving yourself and seeing yourself's worth then you'll definitely find that person who will see your worth and love you just the way you deserve to be loved..but most of all, love aint easy but when you get it right it feels like heaven.

Have a fabulous week!